Oh no just 25 weeks till Christmas.

 I have noticed Christmas in July stuff all around, and realized we are halfway there. I am still in a holding pattern and totally uninspired to finish the room of horrors. It's hot, muggy, and I had rather be swimming than stuck in a room surrounded by seasonal decorations. Maybe next week? I have my doubts, though it could happen.

The only thing even remotely Christmasy I have done this week is to download a Christmas book from my Libby app. I said in January I was going to read a Christmas book every month, but as I look in the mirror I am 4 months behind, excluding the current download, You Make It Feel Like Christmas.

It looks like this will be a quick read if I ever open the blooming thing and start reading. 

My pear tree is loaded this year and I have picked some hard green ones to make pickled pears for Christmas gifts, but have been skillfully avoiding actually doing it. This is time sensitive because I can't make it with fully ripened pears. 

At least I do have the jars washed and ready and have all the necessary ingredients. Now I just need to get my rear in gear, but the pool is screaming at me right now and I feel I must pay attention to it. Tomorrow? 

Ho, Ho, Hum.

Transition and Confusion

This was a transition week after having Son1 and Pip here. Even though they left on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday I woke still thinking they were here. I am not the brightest bulb in the box until I have been awake a couple of minutes.

What was planned:

Grilled tripletail, baked potato, coleslaw

leftover conecuh sausage, leftover cheese biscuits, coleslaw

Veggie dinner TBD

BLT salad

Spaghetti with meat sauce, tossed salad, garlic toast

Something*

Something*

How far I veered off the planned path:

Monday: Pip had one last request of things she wanted to do while here, so off we went to Starbucks. She has some pink drink she likes to drink and wanted a grilled cheese from there. I had no idea Starbucks even had a grilled cheese option, but I am not a Starbucks regular. I only go twice a year, once for a caramel macchiato and another time at Christmas for their peppermint mocha. 

I love coffee, but I am not a fancy coffee drinker. I make it at home every morning like I prefer it, strong and black, not burnt tasting like Starbucks plain coffee tastes to me. 

Mid-day we had to leave to get them to the airport. It is always hard saying goodbye, but we had them for 2 weeks and that filled my cup until the next time we see them.

We got home and rested because we both were tired. I did pick some of the bigger pears from the tree in the front yard, then decided to research what to do with them. I need to harvest them all soon and need, plans in place for long term, as well as short term storage.

The tree is covered  this year, but a mocking bird is nesting there and she is not fond of me being around. I don't mind sharing the tree and some pears with her, and will not bother her babies, but would appreciate her not dive bombing me.

Monday dinner: We had some food in the fridge that needed to be eaten.

 Leftover conecuh sausage, coleslaw,  cheese biscuits

Tuesday: We woke and hoped to get out early to beat the heat. What a foolish thought. It was hot and humid at the start of the day. We had been missing Benny and Brenda's produce stand because the rains kept them from setting up on their usual days closest to my house. I was getting desperate for some good tomatoes (the ones in our yard are not really producing yet) . We ran by and they were there, but without their usual glut of produce. The rains have really affected their crop growth with some crops molding in the fields. Though I was happy for the tomatoes, I really wanted yellow squash and cucumbers, but they have not been producing well this year.

After the produce run we ran by Pilleteri's to grab some of their ground chuck/bacon mix. We have never had it before but 2 different trusted friends told us how good it is so we decided to give it a try.

Next we headed to Snapper Grabber to see if they had any tripletail. It was our lucky day.

Tuesday dinner: Because our fish monger did have tripletail in their case, dinner planned itself. Honestly though, even if they had not had it I would have just bought grouper because we love it also.

Grilled tripletail, baked potato, tossed salad

Wednesday: I did a bunch of laundry, then talked with MBS while I cleaned out the laundry room refrigerator. After it was cleaned and the many loads of clothes I was doing Wednesday were done, I spent time reviewing our July schedule, browsing recipes for potential meals, some advance cooking, and catching up on some reading.

Wednesday dinner: I found a lot of things in the laundry room fridge that needed to be eaten, cooked, or frozen.

Leftover collards, corn on the cob, pink eyed peas, cornbread, peach cobbler

Thursday: I have to stop staying up so late. It was 4 before I finally went to bed, so I slept until a little after 9.  Bad me!

Got up, had coffee (needed a caffeine i.v drip for I was still tired) talked with My Beloved Sister then got ready for the day. Cute clothes and summer heat are not mutually inclusive, but I refuse to compromise and am just very thankful for a really good car a/c.

TheHub and I ran a few errands, picked up the ribs for the fourth (yes I let someone else do the smoking and I pick them up cooked and ready to eat. It is worth every penny). After we grabbed the ribs we stopped by JaWanda's Pies in Inverness. I was not, nor am I ever interested in a sweet potato pie, but she also makes delicious pound cakes. Again I paid for the convenience of not having to bake, and again it was worth it. I do not mind spending money if there is value in it, and after the past two weeks I am putting a price on my time. I had rather be spending the fourth swimming and having fun than cooking.

Thursday dinner: Thanks to the refrigerator clean out and advance cooking, dinner was almost ready and only took about 5 minutes to heat and throw together.

Something like if a fajita and nachos had a really weird baby

Friday: Happy 4th of July if you live in the States and Happy Friday  (or Saturday) to everyone else. Hope all of you had a good day regardless of what side of the pond you live on.

We had a day of swimming and enjoying family. Son2 and DIL2 were here along with MBS. The day was hot but the pool felt great.

Friday dinner: We had just one meal for the day because we knew it would be a big meal, and it was.

BBQ ribs, potato salad, collard greens, vidalia onion pie, watermelon, chocolate pound cake, ice cream

Saturday: TheHub and I got up and ran a few errands. ( I left before coffee which is always dangerous for anyone around me) We ran by Benny's produce stand and he was not there. Brenda had told us they would only be there if they had enough to harvest, so I am assuming the weather (rain) still was impacting their yield.

We had a few more things to do before we came home to eat lunch, then rested, read and did a few chores. TheHub left to play 9 holes of golf and we had planned on swimming after he got home, but he ran into some friends on the course and golf was extended. Did not matter at all to me, but once it got closer to 6, I decided to nix swimming and just get dinner started. 

Saturday dinner: I don't mind swimming before dinner if all I am going to do is warm leftovers but I was going to cook and I don't like coming in from the pool, taking a shower then starting dinner from scratch. It is never about eating late, but cleaning the kitchen late really pisses me off.

Hamburger patties, french fries, cucumber tomato onion salad

Sunday: We woke in plenty of time to get to church, but right before time to get dressed we decided to stay home and watch it online. Since it was the 4th weekend, we only had one service and no Sunday School.

The day was beautiful and I decided the pool was calling me. MBS came over and we swam laps, then just floated and talked. It felt great!

Later in the afternoon I talked with Sluggy and caught up on her trip. Now I know my southern rear end does not need to go near the Arctic Circle__ever. A summertime high of 47? No thanks!

Sunday dinner: This was a reheat and eat type of night.

Ribs, collards, potato salad, baked beans

What might possibly happen this week? Because we might swim right before dinner I want things I can have ready in a jiffy.

1. Big salad meal

2. Veggie meal

3. Grilled tuna, tossed salad, green beans, mashed potatoes

4. Zucchini cheese strata, tossed salad

5. Stuffed peppers, coleslaw, mashed potatoes

6. We might be going tn Nashville and if we do we will eat out some

7. Ditto

Books read in July:

Holly

Have a great week staying on plan, going off plan, or with no plan at all.

May all your weeds be wildflowers.

Anne

Oh no just 26 weeks till Christmas

 I did go into the room of horrors and work a little bit, but did I finish?

Nope!!! I guess you can call me  a . . . 

                                     . . . 

The whirlwind is over__for now

After time at the beach and a week+ having Son1 and Pip here, our lives are now back to just the two of us. My days are all mixed up and I operated all day today assuming it was Monday. It wasn't. We really did love being with them and now things will settle to a dull roar for a bit, and we will just do the things we normally do together.

Meals planned for the week:

None. I knew the week was going to be unusual and there would be no reason to plan, so I didn't.

Monday: When Pip is in town, TheHub and I act like Disneyland grandparents. On a good year we see her three times, but usually twice is the norm. Though, there was that 2 year period during Covid when we did not see her live and in person at all. 

Instead of being able to take her to grab a burger or something similar every week, like all of my friends who have grands living close by, our spending on her is done in a concentrated amount of time during visits. It might seem excessive to some, but our options for spoiling our only grandchild are limited and we plan for and take full advantage of it when she is in town.

Since she was a little older and wiser, this year instead of grabbing the credit card and swiping every time we were out and about, we gave her cash the first day she was here, with the promise I would take her shopping wherever/whenever she wanted to go, but once the money ran out, that was the end of what we would buy. (There was a codicil that if we were out and about, food purchases were excluded and would be on us.)

Our first stop was to her favorite place, Sephora. And trust me, she flat out knows what she wants there. We shopped and shopped and shopped some more, until she had found the things she wanted, ever mindful of her budget. We would still be there today if I was not about to wet my pants. Sephora at the Summit has no rest rooms and it required going to Trader Joe's for a little relief. While we were in the store I did pick up a few necessities.

We had not eaten lunch by about 2:30 and were hungry. When I asked her what she was thinking might be good, she suggested sushi. Not my favorite, but I gave her the option and she chose, so I went along with it.

We came home in time to find the pool guy here. The rains are still messing with the water balance, but he assured us it would be good to go by Tuesday.

Monday dinner: We scraped together leftovers from the Sunday birthday party

Hamburger patties, salad

Tuesday: The first thing Pip wanted to do was go to Crumbl cookies. We went and came home with a 4 pack. Of course she got to pick out all the flavors.

Swim day, all day with jumping out of the pool only to eat or get out of the sun. Fortunately it was overcast part of the day so no one was sunburned. 

Tuesday dinner: A quick and simple dinner was called for

Conecuh sausage, coleslaw or salad, rice, mango cubes

There may or may not have been a Bruster's ice cream run!

Wednesday: I had arranged for one of our neighbors who has a daughter Pip's age to come over. They had a good time swimming, laughing, talking, eating until it was time for L to head home. 

Pip had to make a choice between seeing the play Frozen or visiting Son2, DIL2 and their 4 dogs. (Know what you call the condition of having too many dogs?   A Roverdose!) She chose to see Jack, Reesie, Cocopuff and Trixie.

Wednesday dinner: We took dinner to their house

BBQ pork, coleslaw, baked beans, cornbread

Thursday: Another swim day. MBS came over to swim with Pip and me. After swimming we got dressed and headed to Barnes and Noble. Pip has developed a keen interest in CD's and Vinyl albums and wanted to go browse and see if she could find anything she wanted. After looking through every single cd and album available, she bought what she said she wanted before we ever left for B and N. So the band, Brat, can count on Pip for another CD sale.

(As an aside: I subscribe to Sirius radio for my car and until the past week it had never been tuned to a pop 40's station. This past week that is all I listened to. I am unsure if it was my ears or brain bleeding!)

Thursday dinner: 

Thursday dinner: We met Son2 and DIL2 for dinner at Waldos

Chicken, collards, coleslaw, toast, fried pickles, other stuff that I don't remember.

Friday: Swimming happened in the morning, then Son1 took Pip to the Galleria then to Son2's house. She wanted to spend the night with them and have lots of time with the dogs.

Friday dinner: Son1 met two of his former fraternity brothers and their wives for dinner, so it was just TheHub and me for dinner here.

Hot dogs, french fries

Saturday: We met Son2 at a restaurant halfway between our houses for a quick lunch and Pip exchange. Once we were home she decided some shop[ping was in order. We left with the intention of going to Ross then Ulta. However she found a haul at Ross then nixed Ulta altogether. If the truth is being told, she still had one large bill left from the money we gave her for shopping and did not want to break it, so it could go back to Portland with her.  I am sure she had plans to use it there, probably for entertainment with her friends. Fine with me! I don't like to shop and only go with her because I love her.

Saturday dinner: We were running out of days to use our minimum from the club so we had to use it.

Fish sandwich, shrimp bowl, or pizza

Sunday: This was the last full day for Son1 and Pip to be at our house. It was a swim, pack get things together kind of day.

Sunday dinner: Son1 wanted bbq one last time. It is not that you can't find bbq in Portland, you can. You just can't find that slow hickory smoked jukcy delicious type you can find all over the south.

We were happy to oblidge and invited Son2 and DIL2 to join us. They love bbq too!

Pulled pork, baked beans, collard greens, cheese biscuits, mac and cheese

And with the exception of a flight the next day, our time with them was over. Did I mention how tired I was, since Pip did not go to bed before 2 every night and I stayed up with her watching Young Sheldon. I had never seen it before and it was a cute show, and I shoud know because we watched episode after episode, season after season

What might be on the menu this week? 

Grilled tripletail, baked potato, coleslaw

leftover conecuh sausage, leftover cheese biscuits, coleslaw

Veggie dinner TBD

BLT salad

Spaghetti with meat sauce, tossed salad, garlic toast

Something*

Something*

Books read in June

We Could Be Rats (This book has a hard subject matter)

My Italian Bulldozer

The Dutch House

The Friday Afternoon Club

The Year I Turned Pretty**

This is a Love Story***

Have a great week staying on plan, going off plan or with no plan at all.

May all your weeds be wildflowers.

Anne

* I need to clean the fridge and see what needs to be eaten, but I am not in the mood to do it today.

** Read in tandem with Pip. Now I wonder why I am not churning out "Hallmark books" for tweens.

*** Supposed to be good but I found it just tedious

Oh no just 27 weeks until Christmas

 Hey, give me a break  First I was at the beach and now Pip is at my house. Whole lotta shakin’ is going on, none of which is Christmas related

Summer fun!

Last week was a fun and family filled summertime week, with promises of more of the same this week. 

Monday: Got ready to go to the beach

Monday dinner: It was a clean out the fridge night

Leftover Thai food

Tuesday: Left for the beach. What can you say? We arrived to a gorgeous condo, met Son2 and DIL2. Son1, DIL1, and Pip were supposed to arrive at the PCB airport that evening, but unfortunately they got stuck in Denver overnight, so our planned pickup did not happen. 

Tuesday night: We had not been to the grocery store and had nothing for dinner, so we went to a small seafood restaurant. The food was OK but not great. Since everyone orders differently I will only post what I ate.

Shrimp and scallops, cheese grits, coleslaw

Wednesday: We all went shopping for groceries, then it was time for beach or reading activities. Since we were going to have to drive about 50 minutes to the airport in the late afternoon, I opted for reading. 

We left in what we thought was enough time to get to the airport by the time their flight came in. Unfortunately we did not allow for getting stuck in traffic. We were about 10 minutes later than when they landed, but the upside was a delay getting their luggage, so we managed to have to wait for them a few minutes. I had much rather wait to pick someone up than to have them waiting for me. 

I was thrilled to see all of them but sad they lost a day of Florida fun due to flight delays.

We drove back to the condo and a quick dip in the pool was first on Pip's agenda. For Son1 and DIL1 taking a shower and changing out of the clothes they had been wearing for two days was paramount.

Priorities, right?

Wednesday dinner: There was a seafood restaurant near the condo that offered take out options. I took orders from everyone and called them in. Again everyone wanted something different so I am only listing my dinner.

Fish tacos, green beans

Thursday: It was a near perfect beach day. Lots of sun, the water was clear (big undertow but at least the flags were just yellow rather than  red like they were Wednesday. Lots of sunscreen was used and no one was sunburned. I call that an extremely successful beach day.

Thursday dinner: No one wanted to come in early and get dressed to go out to eat, so earlier in the day TheHub and I had run to a local seafood market to buy foods for dinner.

Grilled grouper, seared scallops, steamed shrimp, asparagus, coleslaw, tossed salad, croissants, ley lime pie 

Friday: Beach day, what else is there to say?

Friday dinner: They made to drive to Boondocks for seafood. I was not feeling well and stayed home.

Assorted seafood dishes served with fantastic hushpuppies.

Saturday: All good things must come to an end. We had to drive to the PCB airport to take DIL1 to the airport. She had to be back in Portland for work. Son1 and Pip rode back to Birmingham with us to stay for a bit. We stopped multi times on the way home, traffic was horrendous, and it took us what seemed like forever to get home. Once home we were delighted (SHE SAID SARCASTICALLY) to find a green pool. The excessive rains diluted the chemicals and the water that was perfect when we left was not so perfect once we were home. Boo!

Saturday dinner: Pip is a big fan of the show "Young Sheldon".  In one episode Sheldons brother and sister split a steak and lobster dinner at Red Lobster. That is where she wanted to go . Insert the name Piper for Lola, and lobster for what she wants, in the song below.

Son1 and Pip split the steak and lobster dinner. TheHub and I shared the bacon wrapped scallops, stuffed mushrooms and each had a side salad.

Sunday: When we woke, Pip and I made cupcakes to have with dinner Sunday.

After that, because our pool was still being a little temperamental, TheHub took Pip to the club to swim. After all, swimming is swimming, and at the club she had the option of much larger pool plus a slide and diving well. 

While she was gone I got the house tidied up a little for a party that night.

My Beloved Sister's birthday was Friday while we were gone, but we had planned a birthday dinner for Sunday night. 

When Pip got home from swimming, she and I went to Dollar Tree to pick some birthday decorations. She was in charge of what we were purchasing and how we were decorating. Turns out she had very specific ideas. On the drive home she confessed if she had been with her parents they would not have let her get as much stuff as her sucker grandmother did.

She directed, and the rest of us followed her decorating instructions.

Sunday dinner: Happy Birthday MBS! The four of us, MBS,  plus Son2 and DIL2 had dinner together served with lots of laughter

Hamburgers w/ fixings, pasta salad, baked beans, cupcakes, ice cream

What might possibly be eaten this week:

Who knows? We have another week of winging it based on whatever sounds good to any/everyone.

Next week I will get back to a meal plan of sorts, but I am not willing to do anything right now. I had rather be flexible. 

Oh no, just 28 weeks till Christmas

After all the goings on during the last week the only thing even remotely Christmasy I did was walk into the room of horrors, look around and shut the door.

Packed my duds for the beach and left with no remorse.

Moving on

This was a week to get some things done preparing for a new normal 

What I thought we might eat last week:

Hamburger patty, broccoli salad, saffron rice

Big salad meal TBD

Veggie meal TBD

Thai chicken, jasmine rice. coleslaw

Tuna steaks, baked potato, tossed salad

Sandwiches, coleslaw, french fries

Out to eat or take out

Monday: Began the week with a lengthy phone call with My Beloved Sister. (know from here forward as MBS). She was going to have her SIL over so I stayed at home. I did not want to interfere with them. Her SIL did not make it to town until much later in the afternoon so she did not go to MBS's house. I would have gone over with some boxes she requested and helped her go through some of the non-personal items she does not want to keep anymore.

Monday dinner: It was planned and easy. I will opt for easy almost every meal.

Thai chicken, rice, asian coleslaw, dinner rolls

Tuesday: I went with MBS to pick up BIL's death certificate. I was no help whatsoever, but I was a buffer just to keep her from becoming upset when she actually saw it. 

I had gathered some moving boxes for her that we had did not use when we sold the lake place along with several Trader Joe's paper bags. There are some things she is getting rid of because they will never be used again, and she had many things BIL's nephew could use, so she wanted him to have them.

You don't always think that to get rid of things you need to have something to contain them. I could at least help getting those to her.

She also had many things that belonged to BIL's deceased brother that needed to go to their sister, instead of staying at MBS's house. 

Tuesday dinner: I had dressed for the day and rode with TheHub to go sign some checks for one of the contract projects he is still working on, and to have a quick meeting signing a few papers.  While we were in that part of town we went to a men's clothing store he loves, to pick up a couple of casual wear items he wanted. After he completed his shopping, we decided to run by a restaurant near by for dinner.

Veggie soup and greek salad or Greek sandwich.

Wednesday: I stayed at home planning the post funeral reception via phone calls with MBS and our good friend C, who agreed to help putting the reception table together after the service. My church's parlor is a large very pretty but fairly formal room. The service was to be held there with refreshments to be served afterward.

 C has a knack for making everything beautiful and when she asked what she could do for MBS, I told her using her talent was the best possible "gift".

After discussion, we agreed that we needed silver trays and candelabra, along with serving pieces, tiered tray, crystal pitchers, ice bucket and serving utensils. 
I have a lot of "things", most of which stay tucked in various cabinets and drawers. You know all that stuff you have in your house that you rarely use and then you pull them out and realize they need some serious attention? To quote Son2. "you had a little silver with your tarnish, Mom". Needless to say, there was a whole lot of polishing going on.

Wednesday dinner. I invited MBS over to eat with us, but also to let her have the final say about the all the serving pieces. I did not think she would care one way or another, but it was still her call.

Taco salad

Thursday: TheHub and I ran out to all of the various places we needed to go to to purchase all the foods we needed for after the service. My aim was to have every single thing on hand so I could wake Friday morning ready to roll. I managed to get everything going to only 4 different stored, got home and got everything unloaded  and stored, ready and waiting for early Friday morning when I could begin.

Thankfully friend C took purchasing the flowers off my plate, which was wonderful because she does so much better with arrangements than I do

Thursday dinner: I had most of this on hand and in the freezer.

Rosemary chicken, au gratin potatoes  leftover club salad*

Friday:  I woke very early and began working on the food. One of the things I planned to make was finger sandwiches. I had put the bread in the freezer so it would be partially frozen making it much easier to remove the crusts, and cut the sandwiches into 4ths. I knew things were going too well. When I took the first few pieces out of the loaves of bread, I realized all the loaves had huge air bubbles throughout them. That would not work at all, which meant I had to change into going out in public clothes to buy more bread. It put me a good bit of time behind schedule, but I got all those suckers made with just the tiniest bit of time to spare. 

I might have meant a speed shower and getting ready in record time, but we made it and were at the church a few minutes before our agreed arrival time. Whew! 

The service was very personal and MBS had the most wonderful eulogy, which included both tender and funny memories. And like all services, once the final prayer was said there was some closure and people began moving around the room, nibbling on the goodies, talking to each other, and sharing stories and memories .

Friday dinner: TheHub and I had a long day and neither of us wanted to cook. I am very grateful we live in the south where delicious BBQ is available all around us.

BBQ sandwich, baked beans, potato salad

Saturday: We woke and dressed to run a few errands. We began going to Argo (a community about 35 minutes from our house) to give some of the excess food from the reception to one of my cousins. They have 6 grandchildren who come to their house often, so things will be eaten. We had already split some between MBS, BiIl's family and us, and there was still so much left. (Never ask me to do food for an uncertain crowd number for I will always fall in the rather have  "too much"rather than "too little" category).

Since we were already in the general direction, we called Son2 and DIL2 to have them meet us for lunch at  a Thai restaurant near their home.  It is always wonderful being around them, even if we had just been with them at the funeral the day before.

After eating we had one more stop before heading home. TheHub had ordered and received some shirts from Untuckit. They sent 2 of one shirt but there was no charge for it, so he decided to just stop at the store to return the unordered one. 

The store personnel were most appreciative and really could not believe he would return it.

We try very hard to always live an honest life and have even taken a rogue lemon that hid in the grocery cart after paying, back into the store. The right thing to do is always the right thing to do.

 Saturday dinner: We still had reception leftovers.

Finger sandwiches, coleslaw

Sunday: We woke early to go to the communion service followed by church at 8:30, then Sunday school. I like to start my week doing that. Once home we started doing a few things to get ready for our upcoming beach trip and both took a little recliner snooze while watching the NCAA world series.

Sunday dinner: Leftovers was the name of the game again, but this time they were different ones.

Thai chicken pineapple fried rice (The servings at Thai Basil are huge)

What's up fpr this week?

Who knows? We are headed to the beach Tuesday and whatever happens happens!

Books read in June:

We Could Be Rats (This book has a hard subject matter)

My Italian Bulldozer

The Dutch House

The Friday Afternoon Club

Have a great week staying on plan, going off plan, or with no plan at all.

May all your weeds be wildflowers.

Anne

*TheHub had a luncheon meeting that afternoon and he always brings any leftovers home.

Oh no just 29 weeks till Christmas

 My heart and mind were not thinking about Christmas in any way shape or form this past week, and I am only posting this because my intent from the beginning was to report each week, even if I did nothing. 

A Week

This was a difficult week, and the days were not listed as joys, instead I was just recounting what happened.

What I thought we might possibly eat last week:

Sloppy Joes, french fries, coleslaw

French toast, bacon, sliced fruit 

Big salad meal TBD

Leftover spaghetti and meat sauce, tossed salad

Sandwiches TBD

Crack chicken, coleslaw

Grilled pork chops, broccoli, toast

What happened and what we ate:

Monday: The news Monday morning was not good. My Beloved Sister*called the first thing to let me know their situation had drastically worsened. Fortunately her SIL was with her at the hospital and they were able to be there for her hub's peaceful transition. 

After leaving the hospital, they both went to his elderly mother's house to break the news to her. My heart broke for all, but his mother, who outlived 2 sons was devastated.

While she was at her MIL's, I contacted everyone she wanted me to and ran by her house to do a couple of quick chores. 

I did leave before she got home to give her the alone time she requested.

I think we talked on the phone 4 different times, and she knew I could be there in 5 minutes if she wanted/needed me.

Monday dinner: I was very thankful I had leftovers. I asked MBS if I could take dinner to her or if she wanted to come here, but she said no to both. She was worn out and just wanted to be at her house with her dogs (and some brownies) for the night.

Spaghetti with meat sauce and previously frozen meatballs* (added to stretch the sauce) salad greens (compliments of our neighbors garden)

BIL loved The Avett Brothers. This is their best song to honor him

Tuesday: My Beloved Sister asked me to go to her house Tuesday morning to start the sorting process of all the things she is going to need to do, both in the immediate future and also later on. 

Even with things in order, there is so much to do and so many different people/companies/services to contact. Once she gets the death certificate she can begin the process.

Because I was not available, TheHub ran to Benny's produce stand and grabbed the tomatoes and cucumbers I asked him to get.  I was so thankful for I was completely out of tomatoes and cucumbers. Then TheHub dropped lunch for all of us and stayed while we all brainstormed about the obituary and memorial service.  

BIL was a high school art teacher before having to take a medical retirement and one of his students had done a charcoal portrait of him that captured not only his physical features, but also his personality. MBS plans to have it on an easel during the service.

Now she has an idea of what she wants there is one less thing she needs to think about. Meanwhile I was and am available to do whatever she needs, even if it is just a shoulder to cry one.

Tuesday dinner: TheHub and I were both at MBS's house until late afternoon for him and early evening for me. Dinner needed to be quick and use some of the excess bread we had in the house.

French toast, bacon*, apple slices, orange slices

Wednesday: I picked MBS up at her house and we ran an errand, then had lunch prior to meeting the minister to go over the service details. She and BIL had no home church though both were/are deeply spiritual.  I was so happy my church will accommodate her wants and needs.

MBS was hoping to have the service early next week, to allow time for his nieces and nephew to arrange their schedules and get to town. Unfortunately, Vacation Bible Camp will be Monday-Thursday and will tax the facilities and the facility maintenance, so Friday the 13th was the earliest it could be held.  We have laughed about that, and think BIL would find it funny.

There is just so much other stuff that has to be done now, and the Alabama Bureau of Vital Statistics is not helping anything. They now evidently move at a snails pace getting all the necessary paperwork she will need to begin contact with various entities and are claiming a 7 day to 3 week time span before a Death Certificate is filed and can be claimed.  What!?!

Wednesday dinner: Since I was out most of the day with MBS dinner needed to be something quick. It was also a game night to watch softball so the meal had to be game worthy.

B*LT salad

Thursday: I woke way too early and thought about trying to go back to sleep since I had not gotten into bed until 2 a.m. I finally decided I might as well go ahead and get started with my day. 

MBS did not need me as she was stuck waiting on paperwork before she could proceed to whatever is next.

I stayed at home and got some work here done, not knowing what if anything she would need me for later.

Thursday dinner: We were going to watch the 2nd game of the NCAA softball World Series which meant another ballgame meal

Sloppy Joes*, fries or green beans,* coleslaw

Friday: MBS is directionally impaired, and almost knows how to get places. Operative word is almost. She had an appointment to pick up his remains at the crematorium which is in a very remote location. I knew she would never be able to find it, so I offered to drive. I am glad I did because if she tried to find it herself she would have wound up in a totally different part of the state.

Once home, TheHub and I ate a quick lunch and ran a few errands. We did get caught in an interesting downpour. The skies opened and we could barely see in front of us ___for about 2 blocks. When we were through that short expanse of roadway, the rains were little more than a drizzle for about 1/4 mile and then nothing. Can't beat weather in the south.

Friday dinner: Neither of us cared what we were going to have for dinner, so I chose to take the path of least resistance.

Beef tips* w/ mushrooms, mashed potatoes, tossed salad

Saturday: I think the emotions of the week caught up with me, and I wanted to do little more than languish doing nothing. When I talked several times with MBS she was on the same path, but had started going through some of BIL's drawers in their office and was finding different things she had never seen before. She said some made her laugh and some made her cry, but she wanted to go through them just the same.

We did run to our local produce guy, who obviously had paid attention to the weather report and decided not to set up Saturday. I still had 3 tomatoes and a few cucumbers so it was not critical, but I will be there early Tuesday morning when they return. Since they were not available, and we were already out and about, we ran to cherry pick Publix.

TheHub and I watched the Auburn/ Coastal Carolina game and both dozed off in our respective seats. 

After dinner we watched "A Complete Unknown". I enjoyed it and was so glad I was seeing it at home where I could stretch out and stop it when nature called. It was too lengthly for me to watch in a theater.

Saturday dinner: At Publix I picked up 2 BOGO seasoned pork tenderloins. I had planned on having pork chops anyway, but deferred to the purchase.

Pork tenderloin, broccoli, toast

Sunday: I could not get to sleep until 4:30 am, then had to get up at 6:45 to be dressed and ready in time to make it to the 7:55 communion service. For a plugged nickel, I would have pulled the sheet over my head and gone back to sleep, but I didn't. 

After the first service we went to traditional 8:30 church, followed by Sunday School. On the way home, TheHub declared he did not want a sandwich for lunch, which was fine but I was not about to cook lunch. 

Sunday dinner: We went to Fried Green tomatoes ( a local meat and three place) for lunch. If we have a big lunch it counts as our meal for the day and at night we have some small bite of something like a salad or some such.

Pork chop, cabbage and green beans or Catfish, okra and peas

What we might eat this week:

1. Hamburger patty, broccoli salad, saffron rice

2. Big salad meal TBD

3. Veggie meal TBD

4. Thai chicken, jasmine rice. coleslaw

5. Tuna steaks, baked potato, tossed salad

6. Sandwiches, coleslaw, french fries

7. Out to eat or take out

Books read in June:

We Could Be Rats (This book has a hard subject matter)

My Italian Bulldozer

Have a great week staying on plan, going off plan or with no plan at all.

May all your weeds be wildflowers.

Anne

*Used from the freezer

Oh no just 30 weeks until Christmas

This below was all written before the week headed south. For now Christmas planning is shelved for a while, which means the room of horrors will just be a closed door when Son1 and family come here. Other things are much more important at the moment.

I did go upstairs the morning after posting just 31 weeks and worked in the room of horrors. Though I did not get it anywhere near finished I did make some headway, including finding a few things to put on our local buy nothing FB page. I had several toys for Pip when she was little that were just taking up space.

In addition to getting rid of those I managed to get the Halloween decor sorted, culled, and packed away. As soon as I post this some random Halloween bit is bound to surface in the room, that was hidden under some also random piece of Christmas decor.

I really need to measure the closet and post the size so you can imagine the amount of holiday decor I own. (Not including the 5 trees which live in the basement). Right now the contents of said closet are emptied out into the room and it is truly overwhelming. Excessive? Yes, and not in the best way.*

* In the not too distant past, the Christmas tree in the den had over 600 ornaments on it. How do I know? One year I counted every single ornament as I took them off the tree. I did decide I could get by with 300 or so and the tree still looked very full, but did I get rid of the overage or just pack it away?

I Wish This Had Played Out Differently

Last week started with an enjoyable holiday and ended with sadness. 

This piece of music is one of my favorite pieces, and I think it is perfectly beautiful. To me, it is the musical reflection of sadness, and I thought it would be very appropriate today.

What I had planned for the week:

1. Ribs, potato salad, baked beans

2. Spaghetti w/meat sauce, tossed salad, dinner roll

3. Salmon patties, broccoli, french fries

4. Enchiladas, coleslaw

5. Out of town

6. Ball game meal TBD

7. Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, green beans

What did and what didn't happen:

Monday joy:  Memorial day started with TheHub working in the yard and me working in the house. Son2 and DIL 2 came over to have a late lunch with us and stayed and visited until the early evening. We love them and love having them around.

Monday dinner: Because it was a holiday, our big meal of the day was a late lunch.

Ribs, potato salad, baked beans, tossed salad, Eskimo pie ice cream bar.

Tuesday joy: I stayed at the house most of the day but did run to ThePig to grab some ground chuck at the sale price on the ad's last day. I figured a large pack would also meet the price requirement to score the free bottle of Hunt's ketchup. Much to my surprise all the packs of the chuck were reduced an additional dollar per pound. I bought about 12 pounds saving 12 bucks, but crowding and already overcrowded freezer. Oh well. 

Tuesday dinner: Since I had bought all of the ground chuck and had to process it anyway, I figured we should have something with it for dinner.

Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, green beans

Wednesday joy:  We woke and hit the road right after rush hour traffic headed to Nashville. We had a couple of things to take to Son3 and DIL3 before they left for their visit to Sweden. On the way there, our car exited at the 3rd Cullman exit, turned left and before we knew what was happening, we were at The Dutch Oven Bakery. Once the car was in the parking lot there was nothing we could do except go in and buy a few things. By a few things I mean 3 loaves of sourdough bread, a chocolate pound cake, chess bars, 2 cheesecakes (they were small) chocolate covered peanuts, and chocolate covered pecans. We did leave most of it in Nashville.

After we dropped off the things they needed and visited a little while, we headed back home.

Wednesday dinner: We stopped at Cracker Barrel** on the way home for dinner.

Chicken and dumplings, coleslaw, or old timers breakfast 2 eggs, sausage, biscuits, fried apples

Thursday joy:  We both stayed home though I did run to a friends house to deliver one of the loaves of sourdough bread to her. Bread is her  kryptonite and I knew nothing could make her happier than a loaf of deliciousness. 

I am so glad we are good friends and I could go to deliver it sans makeup, hair pulled back and wearing grungy house clothes. 

Thursday dinner: I was only using what we had on hand for the meal (except for the gigantic ground chuck splurge everything we have eaten was here at the start of the week)

 Salmon croquettes*, mashed potatoes, tomato slices, sliced cucumbers

Friday joy: I did stay home all day and actually made progress in the guest room and also the room of horrors. It rained again but cleared off in the afternoon in time for the grass to be cut and the pool guys to come. Finally! The water is ready for swimming and I am ready to start doing laps. 

Friday dinner: When I was processing the ground chuck for the freezer I browned about 3/4 of a pound for a meal later in the week.

Spaghetti* with spiffed up Rao's marinara*, greens and artichoke heart* salad, garlic bread

Saturday joy: After a 1:30 am call, 3 hours of wakefulness and a follow up call at 6:15, I had little sleep and could not fall back to sleep. So there was nothing to do but get ready for the day. TheHub and I ran some early morning errands, and I did something I never do. I actually had my phone in my pocket all day (with the ringer on, which I rarely have on) to stay in touch with My Beloved Sister as needed.

I talked and/or texted with her all day. 

Other than that I just hung around the house doing whatever mindless task I could do.

Saturday dinner: Nothing to say, it just was what it was,

Roasted chicken, collard greens, tomato onion and cucumber salad

Sunday: After another mostly sleepless night, we decided to forgo the early services at church and only went to Sunday School. 

We had just gotten home when I got a text from My Beloved Sister asking me to come sit with her. TheHub dropped me off at the hospital and I stayed there until about 5, when she was ready to leave for the day. The good thing about being so close is knowing when the other needs company in difficult circumstances, and knowing how to make the other laugh instead of crying. She gave me a lift home, and we talked some more before she left for her house. 

Sunday dinner: I did not feel like cooking, which meant a very simple dinner happened.

Cheese toast, apple slices, orange wedges

Possible meals for the week:***

1. Sloppy Joes, french fries, coleslaw

2. French toast, bacon, sliced fruit

3. Big salad meal TBD

4. Leftover spaghetti and meat sauce, tossed salad

5. Sandwiches TBD

6. Crack chicken, coleslaw

7. Grilled pork chops, broccoli, toast

Books read in May

A Homemade Life

The Light of Days

The Making of Home

Wintering

The Things We Cannot Say

The Secret Life of Groceries: The Dark Miracle of the American Supermarket

Have a great week staying on plan, going off plan or with no plan at all.

May all your weeds be wildflowers.

Anne

* used from freezer or pantry

** If you are not from the south you might not know that just about every town of any size with an exit on the interstate has a Cracker Barrel. Alabama alone has 31. The food is not exceptional, but it is tasty and very consistent at all locations. It is not fast food and you can get breakfast anytime they are open (if you happen to be the type of person who likes to eat that foul stuff)

And just in case you feel like shopping while waiting on your food to get to your table they have a country store attached with all kinds of sparkly and shiny bric a brac, clothes, toys, and old fashioned candy. 

*** I have no idea which way the wind will blow this week, so I have cleared my calendar to be available for my sister. I may cook enough for the week in one day, or maybe not.  No matter what, this is going to be a week of very basic no frills meals.

Because It's June

 

Oh No Just 31 Weeks Till Christmas

 N-O-T-H-I-N-G, that was Christmas done by me

NOTHING... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

I didn't look at a Christmas book, magazine, planner, recipe and I dang well did not look in the room of horrors to get all my Christmas stuff sorted, organized, packed, or discarded.

I've been busy doing other things that I wanted to do__like reading, but that is about to change. 

I have just 2 weeks until the beach trip and after that Son1 and Pip are coming back here for a week. DIL1 is flying in to the beach part of the trip, but has to get back to work and can't take the extra week off. I hate she can't come here too but I certainly understand. 

I need to have the entire upstairs in company shape by then, which unfortunately includes that blasted room, so starting today, or maybe tomorrow, Saturday at the latest, or at the very least by Sunday or Monday I need to get my rear in gear whether I want to or not.  Bums me out!!!

I hope I will be able to post a 30 weeks until Christmas post with a huge room announcement that it is done, but with a full week before it HAS to be finished, and my exceptional procrastination skills, it may not happen.

Will things  change? Only time will tell.

A Lot Of Usual

This week had several days that were just average run of the mill days, along with one day that was spectacular. I will always be thrilled for one wonderful day, even if most of them are just another day

Meals that were planned for last week: 

Crack chicken, brussels sprouts, rice, tomato slices

Veggie meal TBD (depends on what Benny has at the produce stand)

BLT salad (perfect tomatoes are here now!)

Grilled tuna steaks, tossed salad, dinner rolls

Beef and broccoli stir fry, rice

Cheeseburger casserole, coleslaw

Out to eat or take out

Joys and what we really ate:

Monday joy: I stayed home all day, totally reorganized the butlers pantry, and started working in the laundry room. Our laundry room is a large room that was originally intended to be a combo laundry room/sewing room/office space for me. Instead it became a place for 24-7 ironing board availability, and storage for art supplies, dirty laundry, and anything else that did not have a designated space. AKA a dumping ground. 

While I was in the pantry Sluggy called and suggested I might want to attack the upstairs horror room instead of what I was doing. I have been skillfully avoiding that room so why not continue? 

Monday dinner: While I was working in the laundry room, I pulled out some things for this week from the freezer. TheHub had done some recreational shopping at the nearby Mexican bakery and bought dessert.

Tuna steaks ,* tossed salad, dinner rolls, tres leche cake

Tuesday joy: This was a nearly perfect day. The skies were partly cloudy but no rain was forecast. It was just what was needed for going to the first game of the SEC baseball tournament. To make the day even more perfect, we were able to be there with the participants of Independent Place. My happy place is not restricted to the IP facility. My happy place is wherever the people who make me happy are.

The only downside was the cloud cover, which burned off pretty early in the game and it was hot!.

After the game, we went with them to a nearby lake for a picnic lunch. It was a great but overly warm day. 

We got home and TheHub went to play 9 holes of golf, while I took a shower and changed into shorts and a sleeveless top. Summer days are generally 2 shower days around here anyway, and being clean (washing all that unscreen off) and cooling down was a true joy. 

Tuesday dinner: TheHub called when he finished with his golf game, I met him in the driveway and we headed out to grab something for dinner. We had to bring it back to eat because I do not go to restaurants in shorts and a tank top___ever!

Chicken, coleslaw, fries

Wednesday joy: I should have jotted down  what I did Wednesday to bring me joy, but I honestly do not remember what it was. The only thing I truly remember was getting dressed in real clothes and putting on makeup. I do not wear going out in public clothes and a full deck of makeup unless I am going somewhere. Sadly I can remember what I wore but not what I did, so it must have been just routine errands. 

I suppose I could just make something up, but that kind of defeats the purpose of doing this, since I re-read all the joys I had over a year on NYE day and I don't really need or want to read a fabricated joy.

Wednesday dinner: I had originally planned on having a BLT salad, but only had one medium tomato left and a BLT salad requires a lot of T.  Punt time!

Taco* salad, tortilla chips

Thursday joy: The day was drop dead gorgeous! I went to see Benny and Brenda (my favorite and only produce guys). I was the only one there, so we had some conversation in addition to buying veggies. I was there later in the morning than I usually go (caught up reading a good book) and they had sold out of some things I buy regularly, but they did have most of my wants.

Once home, I hung around the house to be here when the pool guys came. We are having a hard time getting our water perfect this year. I guess we have had so much rain and had to backwash so often to keep the pool from overfilling that the salt is diluting much quicker than normal.

Thursday dinner: A visit to the produce stand always means a veggie dinner is about to happen.

Squash casserole, green beans, tomato slices, cucumber slices

Friday joy: I began my day with a little home spa self care. After that I had a stay at home day skillfully avoiding some unpleasant chores. I am not entirely sure why I avoided them because they have to be done and I am running out of days to do them. NonethelessI did just that.

In the late afternoon we watched Alabama's softball super-regional game. It was not successful unless you were an Oklahoma fan and then it was good.

Friday dinner: As so often happens here, a ball game day requires a ball game meal.

Conecuh sausage dogs*, assorted raw vegetables

Saturday joy: I woke and got dressed and ready for the day. I knew I was going to be out and about for a bit so that meant CRC's and makeup.

By the afternoon we were ready to watch Bama softball.  TheHub and I watched about 3 innings of the beatdown, then decided we would head out to do a little shopping. Did we need anything? Nope but we went out cherry picking any way and shopped at both Sprouts and Aldi. Did we stick to my shopping list? Uh, nope. Anyway, we came home with more then I had intended, and I was literally out of room to store it. It turns out I had to spend some major time rearranging just to have places to put everything.

Saturday dinner: Since the ball game was a bust, I did not have to make a ball game meal. I intended to make crack chicken but forgot to start the crockpot. The chicken breasts were thawed and needed to be cooked. Punt!

Coq au vin*, tossed salad

Sunday joy: Our church holds only one service on holiday weekends. As a consequence, instead of being there at 7:55 we went at 10. It was a lovely service and on the way home we ran a couple of quick errands before heading home for lunch.

We watched some of the golf tournament beforeTheHub got busy planting some vegetables, and I dozed off on the loveseat.I do not normally sleep during the day but there is something about Sunday afternoons that calls to me to start reading then snooze. Somehow the day did not seem equitable.

Sunday Dinner: The night was lovely, but storms were forecast for part of the upcoming week. We had planned on grilling at least one night and decided Sunday would be the night.

Steak, mushrooms and onions in wine sauce, tossed salad, apple pie

What may possibly happen this week:

1. Ribs, potato salad, baked beans

2. Spaghetti w/meat sauce, tossed salad, dinner roll

3. Salmon patties, broccoli, french fries

4. Enchiladas, coleslaw

5. Out of town

6. Ball game meal TBD

7. Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, green beans

Books read in May

A Homemade Life

The Light of Days

The Making of Home

Wintering

The Things We Cannot Say

*Used tuna steaks, ground chuck, chicken breasts, from the freezer. I would say I am making headway

Oh No Just 32 Weeks Till Christmas

 

Yep, nothing is about what I have done this week toward Christmas prep. I did have a phone call with Sluggy and she suggested I might want to go upstairs and work in the room of horrors, but nope. I decided I had much rather work in the butler's pantry and laundry room. Actually, anything other than working upstairs! 

Besides, Son1's family will not be here until mid-June and since they stay upstairs I still have time to get it done. However knowing my penchant for procrastination I imagine I will be upstairs sorting and packing the day before they arrive. Procrastination is my super power.

And I almost lied, I did download a Christmas magazine from my Libby app. The cover was so pretty and I thought I might get an idea or two from it. Unfortunately I was in bed with no glasses when I downloaded it, and it turned out to be a Christmas quilting book. Needle arts are not in my lane,  so it was deleted pretty quickly.

Summery for the past week

Christmas ideas -none

Christmas recipe tried- none

Christmas magazines read-none

Christmas books read-none

I am not giving up, but I am not doing anything about it right now.